Amazing Grace

Westboro Baptist Church was coming to our neighborhood. This “church” opposes homosexuality (their slogan is “God hates fags”), and church members get their message across by picketing high-profile events like military funerals. It’s a sad, sick, legally protected attempt at attention, and no one likes it much.

So when a Marine from nearby Zeeland was killed in Afghanistan during his sixth tour of duty, the hate mongers of Westboro Baptist prepared to show up at the funeral. In response, a peaceful protest began to brew in support of the family of Gunnery Sergeant Daniel Price. The goal was to line the streets with people, creating a human shield that stretched the four-plus miles from the church to the cemetery. If Westboro showed up, they would be invisible behind a wall of flag-waving individuals. The call went out on Facebook and by word of mouth, and momentum grew.

On Saturday morning Bill, Kelsey, and I drove to Holland, my hometown, where the funeral and burial were to take place. We left our car near the park where I used to go for family picnics and walked to the cemetery, where we took a few minutes to visit the graves of family members. Then we took a spot on the funeral route, about halfway between the cemetery and what used to be my Uncle Herb’s house (where we would watch the Memorial Day parade each year). We stood with our flags and waited, watching the crowd gather.

All manner of humanity showed up. People with tattoos and interesting piercings, grandparents with their grandkids, people pushing wheelchairs, parents pushing strollers. Some wore the ugliest red-white-and-blue shirts you’ve ever seen, while others wore military uniforms. Most carried flags, some of them the flags that had draped the coffins of fallen soldiers. Some brought lawn chairs and blankets so they could wait in comfort. Although the area isn’t exactly known for racial diversity, this protest was blessed with a variety of skin tones.

A foul-mouthed family with cigarettes and a pit bull fell in next to us. People distributed bottled water. For a while it felt like a parade rather than a funeral. But as time passed, the crowd grew quiet and anticipatory. Finally, at about 12:30, we saw the flashing lights of the lead police car. Following the cop were the motorcycles of the Patriot Guard Riders. This unlikely grassroots effort began to counter the poison of the Westboro group; bikers will escort the funeral procession so that the noise of their bikes covers up the sound of the protestors. Two by two they rumbled by—men and women, old and young, some obviously vets and military supporters and others who seemed to be pacifists—a line of bikes stretching two miles.

They were followed by a white hearse, and then by car upon car carrying family and friends, many of them in uniform. We stood at attention with our flags for forty minutes as they all filed safely into the cemetery, where the honor guard waited to lay Daniel Price to rest.

The funeral route was over four miles long, and people lined both sides of the streets for the entire route. There were rumors that Westboro members were in the area, but there were no signs of their protests. Word on the street is that the number of human shield participants scared them off.

It was a beautiful thing, to see so many people with nothing in common come together to do a good thing.  Certainly some came to support the military and its people. Some came to oppose the message of Westboro. Some came to protect a family in its time of grief. It was good to stand together, if just for a moment, armed with nothing but love for humanity and a desire for peaceful change. You know that cliché, America at its finest? I think that was it.